Feeling stuck in “someday mode”? In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini shows you how to get unstuck in midlife—not by blowing up your life, but through tiny pivots and simple habits that build real momentum.
Instead of waiting for the perfect time, perfect plan, or perfect version of you, Holly walks you through how micro-decisions—one email, one boundary, one small “yes”—quietly create the biggest shifts. You’ll leave this conversation with a clearer understanding of why you’ve been waiting, and a compassionate, practical way to take your next aligned step today, not someday.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why so many midlife women get trapped in “someday” thinking—and why it feels safer than taking action
- How all-or-nothing thinking and perfectionism secretly kill tiny, doable steps
- Why micro-actions and tiny pivots create more sustainable change than big dramatic overhauls
- A simple “Next Inch Method” to help you choose one small, aligned action instead of freezing in overwhelm
- How to work with your nervous system so change feels possible, not paralyzing
- How to celebrate small wins so your brain starts to trust, “When I move, it actually feels better”
Take the 5-Minute Midlife Confidence Quiz
Find out where you are on your reinvention journey—and get a personalized confidence plan so you’re not just inspired, you know your next step.
👉 You’ll discover whether you’re:
- The Awakening Woman
- The Inner Critic Warrior
- The Intuitive Seeker
- The Body Reclamation Rebel
- The Reinvention Ready Woman
Get The Intuitive Pivot Planner
Ready to turn “someday” into today? The Intuitive Pivot Planner is a simple, 3-step guide to help you get clear on what you really want, listen to your intuition, and take your next tiny, aligned action—without a 27-step life overhaul.
👉Think of it as your bridge between knowing you’re stuck and actually moving forward.
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