How to Lose the 'WAIT' – Stop Waiting. Start Living.

How to Lose the ‘WAIT’ Podcast (formerly Say, ‘When!”)

May 15, 2024 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, community, Creativity, Emotional Eating, Feminism, Fitness, Food culture and heritage, Intuition, Meditation, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Trust

Stop Waiting. Start Living. Tell me, what kind of life do you really want? Do you feel like you’ve been[…]

82: How to Know You’re Ready -The real question is are you willing?

August 30, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Stop waiting to feel ready. Learn how to trust the nudge, say yes even in fear, and step into your next chapter with confidence and self-trust.

81. From Good Girl to Rule Breaker: Designing the Life You Actually Want

August 24, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Holly Toscanini explores how “good girl” conditioning holds women back and why midlife is the perfect time to become your own rule maker. Discover how to reclaim self-trust, write new rules, and create the life you actually want.

Episode 80: Enough Already: How to Finally Feel ‘Good Enough’ Exactly as You Are

August 23, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Intuition

In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini tackles one of the most common struggles women over[…]

79. Reclaim Your Energy: Letting Go to Embrace Your Next Chapter

August 18, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Is it really burnout—or are you carrying too much of what was never yours to begin with? In this episode[…]

78. Why September Is the Real New Year (and Your Perfect Moment to Reinvent)

August 10, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Intuition

Forget January—September is the real New Year, especially for women in midlife. In this episode, Holly Toscanini reveals how to use the fresh-start energy of fall to reset, let go of what’s not working, and take inspired action toward your next chapter. Learn how seasonal rhythms, micro pivots, and intuitive living can help you reinvent your life—starting now.

77. Teri Hofford- Learning to Embrace Yourself in Photos and in Life

August 4, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, community, confidence, Creativity, Feminism, Fitness, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

If you’ve ever waited to feel camera-ready—or life-ready—this conversation is your wake-up call. Teri shares tools, mindset shifts, and empowering stories that will help you stop hiding, start showing up, and see yourself through a lens of compassion and truth.

76. How to Trust Your Intuition

July 26, 2025 Had-Enough-Say confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Discover where you are on your intuitive journey and how to rebuild self-trust. Take the quiz and start living aligned with your inner voice.

75. We Simply Do Not Care Anymore, Midlife Women Are Over It—and Finally Living

July 20, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, confidence, Feminism, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Holly explores what it really means when women in midlife say, “We simply do not care anymore.” Inspired by a viral BuzzFeed article and TikTok creator @justbeingmelani, this episode dives into the radical freedom that comes with giving fewer damns—on purpose.

Perfection is not required with michelle chung

74. Finding Effortless Love with Michelle Chung

July 13, 2025 Had-Enough-Say confidence, Emotional Eating, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Find love without dating apps. Love Strategist Michelle Chung shares 3 steps to attract a committed relationship—no perfection required.

73. What’s Holding You Back? Uncovering the 5 Hidden Blocks to Self-Trust

July 6, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Intuition

Do you constantly second-guess yourself? Feel stuck in indecision? Wonder why you can’t seem to move forward—even though you really want to?
You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini, midlife reinvention coach and creator of The Reinvention Code™, walks you through the five hidden blocks to self-trust that are quietly sabotaging your clarity, confidence, and intuition.