How to Lose the 'WAIT' – Stop Waiting. Start Living.

How to Lose the ‘WAIT’ Podcast (formerly Say, ‘When!”)

May 15, 2024 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, community, Creativity, Emotional Eating, Feminism, Fitness, Food culture and heritage, Intuition, Meditation, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Trust

Stop Waiting. Start Living. Tell me, what kind of life do you really want? Do you feel like you’ve been[…]

73. What’s Holding You Back? Uncovering the 5 Hidden Blocks to Self-Trust

July 6, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Intuition

Do you constantly second-guess yourself? Feel stuck in indecision? Wonder why you can’t seem to move forward—even though you really want to?
You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini, midlife reinvention coach and creator of The Reinvention Code™, walks you through the five hidden blocks to self-trust that are quietly sabotaging your clarity, confidence, and intuition.

72. Messy is Magnetic: Why Showing Up Real Beats Being Perfect Every Time

June 28, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

In today’s episode, we explore why real is more powerful than perfect. Holly Toscanini, founder of The Reinvention Code™, invites you to let go of the illusion of perfection and embrace the magnetic power of your full, human self.

71. The Myth of ‘Too Late’: Why Now Is the Perfect Time to Reinvent Yourself

June 22, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Creativity, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Feeling stuck in midlife? Discover why it’s not too late to reinvent yourself—and how to start today with confidence, clarity, and purpose.

70. How to Rediscover Your Voice and Visibility in Midlife

June 15, 2025 Had-Enough-Say confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Feel invisible in midlife? You’re not alone. In this empowering episode, Holly Toscanini explores how women over 40 can reclaim their voice, visibility, and self-worth—without apology.

69. The Confidence Trap – Why You Don’t Need to Feel Ready to Act Boldly

June 8, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, community, confidence, Creativity, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

In this empowering episode, Holly Toscanini unpacks the myth that confidence is something you need to feel before taking action.[…]

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68: How to Break-up with Burnout- Why Hustle Culture Is Failing Women

May 24, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Burnt out from doing too much and feeling too little? Discover how midlife women can break free from hustle culture and redefine productivity with intuition.

67. Unlearning Good Girl Syndrome: How to Speak Up, Set Boundaries, and Say No Without Guilt

April 27, 2025 Had-Enough-Say Anti-Diet Culture, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Discover how to break free from good girl conditioning, set boundaries, and reclaim your voice—no guilt required. Confidence starts here.

66. Permission to Pivot: How to Reinvent Yourself Without Losing Your Mind

April 14, 2025 Had-Enough-Say confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Feeling stuck and craving change but overwhelmed by how to start? In today’s episode, I share my personal pivot journey and give you powerful tools to confidently navigate your own reinvention without losing your mind.

65. The Power of Imperfect Action: Why Messy Progress is the Key to Your Dreams

March 31, 2025 Had-Enough-Say confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Helping midlife women shift their mindset from perfectionism to intuitive, courageous, imperfect action, highlighting that progress—not perfection—is the true pathway to fulfillment.

64. How to Pursue Your Passions with Confidence: Overcoming Doubt & Fear

March 16, 2025 Had-Enough-Say community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Have you ever felt paralyzed by fear and self-doubt, waiting for the perfect moment to pursue your passions? In this episode of “How to Lose the ‘Wait’,” we tackle the fears that hold so many women back and provide practical tools to reframe fear as a catalyst for growth. Discover why fear exists, the common barriers women over 40 face, and how to build resilience. It’s time to stop letting fear dictate your decisions and start showing up for yourself. Ready to take the leap? Listen now and transform your mindset!