In this empowering and laugh-out-loud episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly explores what it really means when women in midlife say, “We simply do not care anymore.” Inspired by a viral BuzzFeed article and TikTok creator @justbeingmelani, this episode dives into the radical freedom that comes with giving fewer damns—on purpose.
Holly shares her favorite quotes from the article (hello, “My bra is a suggestion, not a requirement”), unpacks the emotional and psychological toll of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and body monitoring, and offers grounded, intuitive tools to help you stop performing and start living.
Whether you’re tired of diet culture, done with emotional labor, or simply ready to stop waiting until things are perfect before you take up space—this episode is your permission slip to let go and live unapologetically.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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Why saying “I don’t care anymore” is a form of midlife liberation, not apathy
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The societal “rules” women are ditching—and why it’s long overdue
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The hidden cost of hyper-caring (and how to reclaim your energy)
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How to use humor and intuition to break free from shame-based expectations
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3 powerful coaching prompts to help you lose the real ‘WAIT’
Resources + Links Mentioned:
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BuzzFeed article: “We Simply Do Not Care Anymore”
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TikTok & Instagram creator: @justbeingmelani
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Free eBook: Activate Your Intuition
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Mini-course: The Wise Woman Reinvention Map
- Free eBook: The Intuitive Pivot- Clarity BReakthrough Planner
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