In this empowering episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini unpacks one of the most powerful shifts a woman can make in midlife: the moment she stops asking for permission.
From “good girl” conditioning to the hidden cost of people-pleasing, Holly explores how decades of external validation leave women disconnected from their intuition and self-trust—and how reclaiming your own approval changes everything.
You’ll learn why self-approval is the most underrated skill of midlife, how to recognize the “good girl ghost” still shaping your choices, and practical ways to rebuild intuitive confidence so you can live boldly, not cautiously.
If you’ve been waiting to feel “ready,” this episode is your invitation to stop waiting and start leading your life from self-trust.
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