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102. Stop Self-Editing: The Unwaiting Rule for Visibility in Midlife

February 9, 2026 Holly Toscanini community, confidence, Feminism, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

If you’ve been feeling invisible in midlife, it might not be because you lack confidence—it might be because you’ve been self-editing. In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini breaks down why smart, capable women often soften their opinions, over-explain their boundaries, and wait for the “perfect wording”… then wonder why they feel unseen.

100. Stop Starting Over: The Unwaiting Method to Turn Insight Into Real Change

January 26, 2026 Holly Toscanini Anti-Diet Culture, community, confidence, Feminism, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Holly Toscanini speaking about Unwaiting: why starting over provides relief but real change comes from one decision and one small action, encouraging listeners to stop living in “draft mode.”

95. Choosing What to Leave Behind: Emotional Decluttering for the New Year

December 15, 2025 Holly Toscanini community, confidence, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

What to Leave Behind: Emotional Decluttering for the New Year
Before you set a single New Year’s resolution, it’s time for an emotional declutter. In this episode, Holly guides you through a step-by-step process to release outdated identities, habits, and roles that keep you stuck, so you can create a true midlife reset that actually fits the woman you’re becoming.

92. Gratitude Without Guilt: Finding Joy When Life Isn’t Perfect

November 24, 2025 Holly Toscanini community, Food culture and heritage, Gratitude, Midlife Reinvention, Self-Acceptance

Instead of weaponizing gratitude as “it could be worse,” Holly unpacks the difference between genuine appreciation and toxic positivity, and offers grounded, compassionate practices to help midlife women notice joy and meaning without denying their reality.

88. Midlife Reinvention Lessons from K-Pop Demon Hunters: Ditch Perfection, Find Your Voice, and Stop Performing Your Life

October 27, 2025 Holly Toscanini community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini uses the animated film K-Pop Demon Hunters as a surprisingly profound lens for midlife reinvention. Through themes of performance, hidden identity, sisterhood, perfectionism, and reclaiming your voice, Holly invites women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to stop performing their lives — and start living them with confidence and authenticity.