How to Lose the 'WAIT'

Category: Feminism

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98. Why New Year’s Resolutions Keep Smart Women Stuck (And What to Do Instead)

Anti-Diet Culture, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

New Year’s resolutions often keep smart women stuck because they’re built on the belief that you must “fix yourself” before you’re allowed to feel confident or start living. In this episode, Holly Toscanini explains why waiting mode isn’t laziness—it’s a self-protection strategy—and shares what to do instead: replace resolutions with standards, build self-trust through small decisions, and create real momentum without pressure or perfectionism.

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96. How to get unstuck in Midlife Tiny Pivots, New Habits, Real Momentum

96. How to Get Unstuck in Midlife: Tiny Pivots, New Habits, Real Momentum

confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

Feeling stuck in “someday mode” in midlife?
Someday you’ll change careers. Someday you’ll feel confident. Someday you’ll finally do the thing you can’t stop thinking about.
In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, intuitive living coach Holly Toscanini shows you how to get unstuck in midlife using tiny pivots, simple habits, and micro-actions that build real momentum over time.
You don’t need a massive life overhaul. You need movement.

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88. Midlife Reinvention Lessons from K-Pop Demon Hunters: Ditch Perfection, Find Your Voice, and Stop Performing Your Life

community, confidence, Feminism, Intuition, Midlife Reinvention, Mindset, Self-Acceptance, Self-Confidence, Self-Trust

In this episode of How to Lose the ‘WAIT’, Holly Toscanini uses the animated film K-Pop Demon Hunters as a surprisingly profound lens for midlife reinvention. Through themes of performance, hidden identity, sisterhood, perfectionism, and reclaiming your voice, Holly invites women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to stop performing their lives — and start living them with confidence and authenticity.

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